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The Girlfriend Search
What is something a lot of lesbian teens want to know? Easy: “How can I get a girlfriend?”
As one teen writes:
First off, though it might seem like there are a ton of young gay and lesbian teens in same sex relationships, there are probably a whole lot more who actually feel the way you do. In fact, kids come on this site all the time saying that they really want a boyfriend or girlfriend. And while you might feel pathetic or worry that you will be single forever, these fears and feelings aren’t really based in reality.
So what can a person in your situation do to speed up the process of finding a girlfriend? You probably know, there is no “one-size-fits-all” formula for finding a girlfriend.
But here are a few ideas:
- Come out. Go for girls who are also out. Go for a girl who might like you back. Put yourself out there. Start a gay / straight alliance. Or join a basketball team or the debate society. Understand the difficulties of dating online. Don’t expect someone to become your girlfriend immediately.
Now you might do all of this and still not have a girlfriend right away. Please don’t beat yourself or get too upset if that happens. A lot of teens of all sexual orientations want relationships and for some kids, it just happens sooner than it does for others.
Keep reading part two for more information on the tips to for getting a girlfriend.
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